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Seeing my own filth made God’s grace feel bigger
I just woke up and something popped into my head Do you guys ever just sit with the thought that we are genuinely wretched? Like not in a depressing way but in a way that makes God’s love much more ...
My girlfriend and I committed to praying together every single day — 24 days in and it’s changed our relationship
A few months ago, my girlfriend and I made a simple commitment: pray together every day. Not when we felt like it. Every day. It sounds easy. It’s not. Life, distance, busy schedules they all quietly chip away at the ...
A reason why we keep sinning
As Christians—and even just as people made in God’s image—there’s something in us that wants to do good. Romans 7 calls this the law of our mind, which desires to do the law of God. But here’s the surprising thing: this ...
Saying no to the porn has been the hardest part of my faith journey
Much respect for this post my friend. Like you, I had the same challenge. It wasn't until I prayed and dove feet first into scripture that I realized how I was disappointing Christ and myself. Now the urges and temptations are under control and porn is an afterthought. Prayers to you and your journeRead more
Much respect for this post my friend. Like you, I had the same challenge. It wasn’t until I prayed and dove feet first into scripture that I realized how I was disappointing Christ and myself. Now the urges and temptations are under control and porn is an afterthought. Prayers to you and your journey. Trust in Jesus, it will get better and remember, he love you.
See lessIs my wife's mom allowed to marry?
Anyone can sin, Christian or not. Nobody should sin, Christian or not. Your concern for your wife's mom & BF should be their salvation. Pray that the eyes of their hearts be open to hear the truth, receive the truth and to choose to become disciples of Christ. Christians should not judge those oRead more
Anyone can sin, Christian or not. Nobody should sin, Christian or not. Your concern for your wife’s mom & BF should be their salvation. Pray that the eyes of their hearts be open to hear the truth, receive the truth and to choose to become disciples of Christ. Christians should not judge those outside the church. But as Paul advised do what we can (as God directs us) to win as many to Christ as possible by sharing His truth with love.
If your question is merely about what the Bible says about a Christian remarrying after an abusive relationship, I’ve studied this question enough to believe abuse is a valid reason to divorce. There is no direct scripture on this however, so I understand if others disagree. The abuser destroyed what God put together. They are acting like an unbeliever in my view.
I don’t see where God calls us to stay in marital situations where we could be physically harmed. However, Paul continued to serve God when He knew physical harm was possible, so it depends on what your calling is. There are many scriptures that encourage us to persevere through suffering/difficulties. Thus, submitting to God’s direction is always best.
See lessWhy does no one acknowledge the sin of gluttony?
Yes, gluttony is a sin . So is greed and the love of money. So many things we don’t even realize we’re doing are sinful. I had a friend who was constantly criticizing a colleague who smoked , yet that friend was obese and addicted to food. We’re all guilty of sinning. What bothers me so much about yRead more
Yes, gluttony is a sin . So is greed and the love of money. So many things we don’t even realize we’re doing are sinful. I had a friend who was constantly criticizing a colleague who smoked , yet that friend was obese and addicted to food. We’re all guilty of sinning. What bothers me so much about your post is the way it comes across. The comment “We need to start treating these people the same way we treat drunkards” comes across as cruel to me. Self righteousness is a sin also. Take care. “These people” ? We can speak the truth in love. Gently. And who of you have never been a glutton and overseen at a special event or holiday at some time. I know you mean a lifestyle, but it still comes across badly . Yes , it’s a sin. But so is pride.
See lessThis weighs very heavy on my heart and I am honestly very hurt and angry about it
While we were yet His enemy, Christ died for us. We forgive because we are forgiven. Don’t let our emotions dictate the truth. Don’t allow the enemy to manipulate our emotions into being greater than the Lord’s power. I’m so sorry that you have suffered in this way. I know nothing of the person butRead more
While we were yet His enemy, Christ died for us. We forgive because we are forgiven. Don’t let our emotions dictate the truth. Don’t allow the enemy to manipulate our emotions into being greater than the Lord’s power. I’m so sorry that you have suffered in this way. I know nothing of the person but I do know the Lord’s words. Whatever a man soweth, that shall he reap. Vengeance is mine says the Lord. He shall repay everyone according to their deeds. I don’t know how close you are to the person still but how do you know that God isn’t punishing them in a way you can’t see? How do we know that God isn’t dealing with them about their sin? Trust the Lord at His word that he is the judge/redeemer. He is just. I don’t know if this person is a true believer but don’t be envious of their seeming “freedom” to have committed this sin. It would be better for a millstone to be tied to his neck…
I pray for your restoration. Christ died naked, publicly abused for all to see. Keep your eyes on Him, “looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.” â€â€Hebrews‬ â€12‬:â€2‬ â€ESV‬‬
Endure your cross. He will be faithful to lead you into all Truth.
See lessWhy doesn’t the Holy Spirit protect against demons?
The way I was taught was that demons cannot possess you because your soul is inhabited and held by Jesus. (Romans 8:38-39) They can pester you and influence the world or the lost people around you though. So its not a good idea to leave yourself open to those kinds of things as christians can inviteRead more
The way I was taught was that demons cannot possess you because your soul is inhabited and held by Jesus. (Romans 8:38-39) They can pester you and influence the world or the lost people around you though. So its not a good idea to leave yourself open to those kinds of things as christians can invite demons in by giving in to appetites, addictions, and transgressions.
See lessIs my pastor father right for not marrying this couple?
He is doing the right thing, I think. As a husband, he will exert undue influence on her and could drag her away from God. At the very least dampen her walk. Look what happened already? She left what seems to be a good church. And what about the children? How will they be raised? How will she protecRead more
He is doing the right thing, I think. As a husband, he will exert undue influence on her and could drag her away from God. At the very least dampen her walk. Look what happened already? She left what seems to be a good church.
And what about the children? How will they be raised? How will she protect them from their father’s influence?
Your dad is looking out for the best for her. But she is blinded by love.
You’re seeing exactly what happens with people who are not “in tune” with God. They will look for someone who will tell them what their itching ears want to hear.
It is very sad, but your dad is right.
See lessMy 17 year old daughter is pregnant
"I've stayed away from shaming her..." Good. It's OK for her to be scared. It's OK for you to be shocked. But, from what I see, you're handling things correctly. Shame, scolding, turning away.... there's no place for that in this situation. I hope the young future parents get married, but they shoulRead more
“I’ve stayed away from shaming her…”
Good. It’s OK for her to be scared. It’s OK for you to be shocked. But, from what I see, you’re handling things correctly. Shame, scolding, turning away…. there’s no place for that in this situation. I hope the young future parents get married, but they should take the marriage seriously. Kids are not a good sole reason to get married.
This might turn into a little “church scandal”, as the father’s family also attends your church…but you’ll be fine. I remember when our church’s head pastor’s 17 yr old daughter got pregnant. The church threw no shame the family’s way. We gathered around them for support. I wish you and your family nothing but the best.
See lessTold my girlfriend I don't want to have premarital sex anymore
Hey man, i was in the same boat about a year ago. Me and my then boyfriend did a bunch of sexual stuff and had premarital sex. It weighed on my heart and we had a convo about it. We failed a couple times but we ultimately ended the sexual stuff and stayed together. Now without lust we are better thaRead more
Hey man, i was in the same boat about a year ago. Me and my then boyfriend did a bunch of sexual stuff and had premarital sex. It weighed on my heart and we had a convo about it. We failed a couple times but we ultimately ended the sexual stuff and stayed together. Now without lust we are better than we have ever been. Been almost a year ish since we have had sex.
It was tough and honestly is a huge temptation but we got past it somehow. When we hangout we simply have fun together, and replaced times of sex with bible studies or deep conversations. It has fixed jealousy between us and we barley ever argue. I pray that your girlfriend has a change of heart and i’m glad God has put it on your heart to put sexual immorality in the past. Praying for you guys!
See lessIs this a sin?
Your relationship is with Jesus. They have no say in that. You can honor your parents by putting up boundaries, and this could be just not sharing everything about your walk with Jesus, and let your transformation speak for you.
Your relationship is with Jesus. They have no say in that. You can honor your parents by putting up boundaries, and this could be just not sharing everything about your walk with Jesus, and let your transformation speak for you.
See lessI want to become Christian but I'm scared, please help…
Don’t worry about the things you fear, the Bible says perfect love casts out fear. Jesus will accept you as you are, but He also loves you enough to not leave in your sin❤️ same for me and everyone else. What concerns do you have about Jesus?
Don’t worry about the things you fear, the Bible says perfect love casts out fear. Jesus will accept you as you are, but He also loves you enough to not leave in your sin❤️ same for me and everyone else. What concerns do you have about Jesus?
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