While we were yet His enemy, Christ died for us. We forgive because we are forgiven. Don’t let our emotions dictate the truth. Don’t allow the enemy to manipulate our emotions into being greater than the Lord’s power. I’m so sorry that you have suffered in this way. I know nothing of the person but I do know the Lord’s words. Whatever a man soweth, that shall he reap. Vengeance is mine says the Lord. He shall repay everyone according to their deeds. I don’t know how close you are to the person still but how do you know that God isn’t punishing them in a way you can’t see? How do we know that God isn’t dealing with them about their sin? Trust the Lord at His word that he is the judge/redeemer. He is just. I don’t know if this person is a true believer but don’t be envious of their seeming “freedom” to have committed this sin. It would be better for a millstone to be tied to his neck…

I pray for your restoration. Christ died naked, publicly abused for all to see. Keep your eyes on Him, “looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.” ‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭12‬:‭2‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Endure your cross. He will be faithful to lead you into all Truth.